148. A Discussion on Domestic and Interpersonal Violence with Jennifer Peterkin
Domestic and interpersonal violence do not discriminate and can happen to people from all walks of life. In this episode, we have a Discussion on Domestic and Interpersonal Violence with our guest, Jennifer Peterkin. Jennifer helps us to understand the difficulties of recognizing and exiting a violent relationship as well as some of the harmful stereotypes and expectations society has pushed in regards to domestic and interpersonal violence. We also discuss ways you can support a loved one or friend who you believe to be in this type of toxic relationship, while also protecting your own mental, emotional, and physical health.
If you or someone you love is experiencing domestic or interpersonal violence there are resources available. Visit Domestic Violence (justice.gov) for more information and resources.
Jennifer’s podcast: The Human Experience (thehxpod.com)
Quote:
“When somebody is being vulnerable with their story, I think it is so important that we do an active job in listening.”
“Domestic Violence, interpersonal violence, is something that knows no race or creed, no gender, no sexual orientation, and no socioeconomic status. Everybody is vulnerable to it.”
“A domestic violence or interpersonal violence relationship exists when there are power dynamics at play that are being mishandled, mistreated, and the person with more power is exerting manipulation, control, and harm over the other party.”
“Being a good support system for a victim is not an easy task – a lot of it is receiving what they are willing to divulge to you in the moment and just sitting with that and letting them know you are there for wherever and whatever they have to give you.
TALK BIG QUESTIONS
Use these prompts to have the opposite of small talk in real life.
Did you know much about the topic of domestic and interpersonal violence prior to this episode?
Do you recognize in your own life or someone close to you a relationship that may be toxic?
In what ways do you try to actively listen and support your friends or loved ones? Following this episode are their techniques you learned that may help you to be more supportive?
